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The joy of the Lord is your strength - Neh 8:10b
Joy means relationship (like muscles, Joy can be developed)
Joy strength is developed as an actual brain structure through loving relationships
Joy means "we are glad to be together"
We are creatures of Joy
Joy is our natural state
Joy is the basis for bonding
Joy gives us strength
Joy is why Jesus spoke to us in John 15:11
I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.
³»°¡ À̰ÍÀ» ³ÊÈñ¿¡°Ô À̸§Àº ³» ±â»ÝÀÌ ³ÊÈñ ¾È¿¡ ÀÖ¾î ³ÊÈñ ±â»ÝÀ» Ãæ¸¸ÇÏ°Ô ÇÏ·ÁÇÔÀ̴϶ó
How do we build Joy?
- God and God's people
- Rom 14:17 Çϳª´ÔÀÇ ³ª¶ó´Â ¸Ô´Â °Í°ú ¸¶½Ã´Â °ÍÀÌ ¾Æ´Ï¿ä ¿ÀÁ÷ ¼º·É ¾È¿¡¼ ÀÇ¿Í Æò°°ú Èñ¶ôÀ̶ó
- Àüµµ¼ 2:26 Çϳª´ÔÀÌ ±× ±â»µÇϽô ÀÚ¿¡°Ô´Â ÁöÇý¿Í Áö½Ä°ú Èñ¶ôÀ» Áֽóª ÁËÀο¡°Ô´Â ³ë°í¸¦ Áֽðí Àú·Î ¸ð¾Æ ½×°Ô ÇÏ»ç Çϳª´ÔÀ» ±â»µÇÏ´Â ÀÚ¿¡°Ô ÁÖ°Ô ÇϽóª´Ï À̰͵µ ÇêµÇ¾î ¹Ù¶÷À» ÀâÀ¸·Á´Â °ÍÀ̷δÙ
- ÀÌ»ç¾ß 55:12a ³ÊÈñ´Â ±â»ÝÀ¸·Î ³ª¾Æ°¡¸ç Æò¾ÈÈ÷ ÀεµÇÔÀ» ¹ÞÀ» °ÍÀÌ¿ä You will go out in joy and be led forth in peace
Joy is why Jesus prayed for us
- John 17:13 I am coming to you now, but I say these things while I am still in the world, so that they may have the full measure of my joy within them. Áö±Ý ³»°¡ ¾Æ¹öÁö²²·Î °¡¿À´Ï ³»°¡ ¼¼»ó¿¡¼ ÀÌ ¸»À» ÇϿɴ °ÍÀº ÀúÈñ·Î ³» ±â»ÝÀ» ÀúÈñ ¾È¿¡ Ãæ¸¸È÷ °¡Áö°ÔÇÏ·Á ÇÔÀÌ´ÏÀÌ´Ù
Joy characterizes disciples
- Acts 13:52 Á¦ÀÚµéÀº ±â»Ý°ú ¼º·ÉÀÌ Ãæ¸¸Çϴ϶ó
Why Jesus said we should pray
- John 16:24 Áö±Ý±îÁö´Â ³ÊÈñ°¡ ³» À̸§À¸·Î ¾Æ¹« °Íµµ ±¸ÇÏÁö ¾Æ´ÏÇÏ¿´À¸³ª ±¸Ç϶ó ±×¸®ÇÏ¸é ¹ÞÀ¸¸®´Ï ³ÊÈñ ±â»ÝÀÌ Ãæ¸¸Çϸ®¶ó
- Rom 15:13 ¼Ò¸ÁÀÇ Çϳª´ÔÀÌ ¸ðµç ±â»Ý°ú Æò°À» ¹ÏÀ½ ¾È¿¡¼ ³ÊÈñ¿¡°Ô Ãæ¸¸ÄÉ ÇÏ»ç ¼º·ÉÀÇ ´É·ÂÀ¸·Î ¼Ò¸ÁÀÌ ³ÑÄ¡°Ô ÇϽñ⸦ ¿øÇϳë¶ó
Joy is why scripture was written
- 1 John
Joy is why we fellowship
- 2 John 1:12 ³»°¡ ³ÊÈñ¿¡°Ô ¾µ °ÍÀÌ ¸¹À¸³ª Á¾ÀÌ¿Í ¸ÔÀ¸·Î ¾²±â¸¦ ¿øÄ¡ ¾Æ´ÏÇÏ°í ¿ÀÈ÷·Á ³ÊÈñ¿¡°Ô °¡¼ ¸é´ëÇÏ¿© ¸»ÇÏ·Á ÇÏ´Ï ÀÌ´Â ³ÊÈñ ±â»ÝÀ» Ãæ¸¸ÄÉ ÇÏ·Á ÇÔÀ̶ó Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.
We are eacther other's joy
- 1 Thess 2:19-20 For what is our hope, our joy, or the crown in which we will glory in the presence of our Lord Jesus when he comes? Is it not you? Indeed, you are our glory and joy. ¿ì¸®ÀÇ ¼Ò¸ÁÀ̳ª ±â»ÝÀ̳ª ÀÚ¶ûÀÇ ¸é·ù°üÀÌ ¹«¾ùÀÌ³Ä ±×ÀÇ °¸²ÇÏ½Ç ¶§ ¿ì¸® ÁÖ ¿¹¼ö ¾Õ¿¡ ³ÊÈñ°¡ ¾Æ´Ï³Ä ³ÊÈñ´Â ¿ì¸®ÀÇ ¿µ±¤ÀÌ¿ä ±â»ÝÀ̴϶ó
- Philemon 1:7 ÇüÁ¦¿© ¼ºµµµéÀÇ ¸¶À½ÀÌ ³Ê·Î ¸»¹Ì¾Ï¾Æ Æò¾ÈÇÔÀ» ¾ò¾úÀ¸´Ï ³»°¡ ³ÊÀÇ »ç¶ûÀ¸·Î ¸¹Àº ±â»Ý°ú À§·Î¸¦ ¾ò¾ú³ë¶ó
We climb Joy Mountain through:
- our voice tones and facial reactions
- smells, touch and temparature
- fellowship meals = favorite foods
- singing
- giving joy to others
Joy gave Jesus His strength: Heb 12:2 ¹ÏÀ½ÀÇ ÁÖ¿ä ¶Ç ¿ÂÀüÄÉ ÇϽô ÀÌÀÎ ¿¹¼ö¸¦ ¹Ù¶óº¸ÀÚ Àú´Â ±× ¾Õ¿¡ ÀÖ´Â Áñ°Å¿òÀ» À§ÇÏ¿© ½ÊÀÚ°¡¸¦ ÂüÀ¸»ç ºÎ²ô·¯¿òÀ» °³ÀÇÄ¡ ¾Æ´ÏÇϽôõ´Ï Çϳª´Ô º¸Á ¿ìÆí¿¡ ¾ÉÀ¸¼Ì´À´Ï¶ó
When our joy capacity is low, life is painful
the gap between pain and joy becomes trauma
Lacking capacity
Type A trauma:
- The absence of good things = inhabits the development of capacity
- Diminished capacity = ongoing trauma
Type B trauma:
- Bad things that happen
- Overwhelms existing capacity: murder, rape, assault, molestation, incest, child abuse, humiliation, betrayal, contempt
Trauma vs. Suffering
¿Ü»óTrauma: ¿Ü»óÀÇ Á¦¾îµÇÁö ¾ÊÀº °¨Á¤ÀûÀÎ °µµ´Â ¿Ü»óÀ» °Þ±â Àü ¿ì¸®Àڽź¸´Ù ¿ì¸®¸¦ ÈξÀ ´õ °ÝÇϽÃÅ´
°íÅëSuffering: º¯ÇÔ¾øÀÌ ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ ´É·Â°ú Áö¹è±ÇÀ» °®°í ÀÖ´Ù. ¿¹¼ö´ÔÀÌ ¿ì¸®ÀÇ Ç¥º»
To Jesus, Relationship is more important than problem
Brain
Front brain: suffering, desire, identity, personal preference
Back brain: trauma, fear, problem-focused
Traume = stored memory
Relationship also stored memory
Six step Immanual process (Healing)
- Hold close to God in a memory
- Ask Jesus to show you your pain
- Return to Jesus when you do not sense His presence
- Do everything Jesus asks to remove blockages
- Share the painful experience with Jesus
- Thank God for your healing
By testifying, we spread joy and peace to others and it returns to us.
Reference: http://www.lifemodel.org/ by Dr. Jim Wilder
http://www.kclehman.com/